LEVEL TWO :Be a Creative Counselor (Isaiah 9:6)
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Categories: LEVEL 2
About Course
Welcome to the “Foundations of Biblical Counseling” course! This course is designed to provide you with a comprehensive understanding of biblical counseling principles and practices, equipping you with the knowledge and skills to effectively minister to others and navigate life’s challenges with wisdom and grace.
What Will You Learn?
- By enrolling in the "Foundations of Biblical Counseling" course, you will:
- Gain a Deep Understanding of Biblical Counseling: Explore the biblical foundations of counseling and understand its relevance in contemporary society.
- Identify Psychological Issues from a Biblical Perspective: Learn to recognize and address common psychological challenges such as bitterness, insecurity, and dishonesty through the lens of Scripture.
- Develop Practical Skills for Counseling: Acquire practical skills and strategies for counseling individuals and groups, drawing upon biblical principles and wisdom.
- Navigate Relationship Dynamics: Understand how to navigate various relationship dynamics, including dealing with overbearing individuals, overcoming evil associations, and addressing soul ties.
- Engage in Spiritual Warfare: Discover the keys to successful deliverance and spiritual warfare, equipping you to overcome spiritual obstacles and walk in victory.
- Cultivate Personal Growth and Well-being: Learn techniques for overcoming stress, negative thinking, and developing qualities such as peace, patience, and positivity.
- Apply Biblical Principles to Specialized Topics: Gain insights into specialized topics such as homosexuality, pedophilia, and the principles of prosperity, and learn how to address them biblically.
- Understand the Bible's Perspective on Mental Health: Explore what the Bible says about coping with terminal illness, overcoming perfectionism and self-hatred, and maintaining mental well-being.
- Enhance Marital and Family Dynamics: Gain insights into the challenges of marriage and family life from a biblical perspective and learn practical strategies for building healthy relationships.
- Develop a Strong Foundation for Counseling Ministry: Whether you're a counselor, church leader, or individual seeking personal growth, this course will equip you with the knowledge, skills, and confidence to provide effective counseling grounded in biblical truth.
Course Content
INTRODUCTION TO BIBLICAL COUNSELING
In the chapter "Introduction to Biblical Counseling," you will learn about the foundational principles and importance of Biblical counseling. The chapter will introduce you to the concept of Biblical counseling and its significance in guiding individuals based on Christian beliefs and teachings. You will understand the role of compassion, service, and the use of the Word of God in counseling, drawing examples from Jesus as the model counselor. Additionally, you will explore the different levels of counseling, the qualifications of a counselor, and the foundations for entering into Biblical counseling. This chapter sets the stage for understanding the core principles and practices of Biblical counseling to provide effective guidance and support to those in need.
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How can Jesus be seen as the model counselor?
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Jesus had a good knowledge of the Word of God
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What are the different levels of counseling?
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The qualifications of the counselor
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Foundation for Biblical Counseling
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II. The second foundation for biblical counseling is the establishing individual Christian discipline in the life of believers
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III. The third foundation for biblical counseling is having a biblical understanding of local church authority and discipline
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IV. The fourth foundation for biblical counseling is establishing some initial commitments in the counselee
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VI. The sixth foundation for biblical counseling is an understanding of the principle of sowing and reaping
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Counseling Preliminaries
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Gathering information and clarifying statements
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Bitterness
In the chapter "Bitterness," you will learn about the detrimental effects of bitterness on individuals, relationships, and spiritual well-being. The chapter defines bitterness as intense animosity, hatred, anger, or resentment towards others, often resulting from difficult-to-accept situations. You will explore various Bible verses that warn against the dangers of bitterness and provide guidance on how to overcome it through love, forgiveness, and kindness. The chapter emphasizes the importance of replacing bitterness with positive emotions and attitudes to prevent it from causing harm to oneself and others. Additionally, you will gain insights into the roots of bitterness, the importance of forgiveness, and the impact of bitterness on one's thoughts, words, and actions.
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Definition
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CHOICE AND DECISION MAKING
The chapter "CHOICE AND DECISION MAKING" emphasizes the importance of making decisions based on seeking the will of God. It highlights the significance of choosing wisely and being guided by spiritual principles in decision-making processes.
Key points
Decision-making for Christians involves finding the will of God.
Carnal reasoning can hinder spirit-led decision-making.
Seeking godly counsel leads to sounder, wiser decisions.
Sound decisions are based on the Word of God.
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Definition
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2. For Christians, decision making is synonymous with finding the will of God.
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The Lord always chooses the best for us.
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Sound decisions are based on the Word
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CHRISTIAN COUNSELING
Christian counseling involves seeking advice or guidance from a knowledgeable person who follows the teachings of Christ as outlined in the Bible. It is essential for the counselor to be a born-again Christian, educated, approved by men of God, and operate within an environment aligned with biblical standards.
Importance of Christian Counseling: Christian counseling is crucial as it addresses the three parts of humans - the soul, spirit, and body. It promotes forgiveness, unity, love, and has the power to bring transformation and positive results to individuals in need. The approach of Christian counseling has stood the test of time and is considered trustworthy.
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Definition:
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10. The Lord often engineers or allows situations as tests, to see what choices we will make.
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For Christians, decision making is synonymous with finding the will of God.
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Carnal reasoning is a hindrance to spirit- led decision making.
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Mature decisions are based on spiritual considerations and goals, rather than solely upon physical circumstances and concerns or personal desires
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The Lord always chooses the best for us.
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One of the main principles involved in reaching a decision: pray for the Lord guidance.
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Sound decisions are based on the Word.
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Seeking godly counsel from others often leads to sounder, wiser decision.
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The final test for our decisions should be: Is it loving?
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CHURCH ADMINISTRATION
In the chapter "CHURCH ADMINISTRATION," you will learn about establishing a membership base, understanding the mindset of the average church member, managing church finances, raising funds, and developing the church constitution.
Key points
Establishing a membership base involves registering members with essential information and understanding the fluidity of church membership.
Understanding the average church member's mindset includes recognizing their focus on self, financial behaviors, and irregular church attendance.
Managing church finances requires wisdom, separating the pastor's money from the church's money, and being cautious with fund-raising events.
Raising funds involves strategic planning, setting reasonable donation amounts, and not relying solely on pledged amounts.
Developing the church constitution is a legal formality defining the church to the government, with little direct impact on day-to-day church operations.
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INTRODUCTION
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How to Establish a Membership Base.
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What to Expect from the Average Church Member.
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3. How to Manage Your Offerings
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4. How to Improve Your Offerings
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5. How to Improve Tithing in the Church
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6. How to Raise Funds in the Church
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How to Manage the Church’s money
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8. Separate the Pastor’s Money from the Church’s Money
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9. How to Develop the Church Constitution
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10. Principles of Employment
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Guidelines for Employment
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WHAT IS COGNITIVE-BEHAVIOUR THERAPY, AND IS IT BIBLICAL?
In the chapter "WHAT IS COGNITIVE-BEHAVIOUR THERAPY, AND IS IT BIBLICAL?" you will learn about cognitive-behavioral therapy and its alignment with biblical principles. The chapter provides an explanation of cognitive-behavior therapy by discussing key concepts and its founders. Additionally, it offers a biblical analysis of cognitive-behavior therapy, referencing supportive biblical texts and providing insights on the compatibility of this therapy approach with Christian beliefs.
Key points
Explanation of cognitive-behavior therapy and its roots in behaviorism.
Focus on challenging irrational thoughts and promoting self-acceptance.
Biblical commentary on cognitive-behavior therapy, referencing relevant scriptures.
Discussion on the balance between self-acceptance and sanctification in the context of therapy.
Evaluation of cognitive-behavior therapy techniques for Christians seeking self-improvement and truth grounding.
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INTRODUCTION
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Explanation of Cognitive-behavior Therapy
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Biblical Commentary on Cognitive-behavior Therapy
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WHY COUNSELLORS FAIL IN COUNSELING
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1) When it is again, God will:
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2) People who had failed in the loyalty to God and His servant:
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3) You can fail in your counseling because you met rude people in your life:
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4) Spend time to pray for them.
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5) Your counsel can fail because of lost of trust to you by your friend, family relative, neighborhood and nation:
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6) Your counsel can fail because of the people’s attitude in counseling branch
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7) Your ministry will have no witness if you are not prayerful
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8) Ways that you have to deliver right counsel:
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CURSES
The chapter on CURSES provides insights into the definition, reasons, and manifestations of curses. It delves into the legal grounds on which curses operate and the different levels of curses that can affect individuals. The chapter also discusses ways curses can be attracted and how they can be averted.
Key points
Definition of curses as prayers or invocations for harm or injury.
Reasons for curses including disobedience to God's words, involvement in occult practices, and idol worship.
Different levels of curses such as divine curses, curses from parents or aggressive individuals, and curses attracted to oneself.
Legal grounds on which curses operate and the importance of understanding the reasons behind curses.
Ways curses can manifest in various aspects of life and how they can be averted through spiritual means.
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Definition:
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There are three levels of curses
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Reasons for curses
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Parental Curses
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Curses you attract to yourself
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How Curses manifest
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How Curses can be averted
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Dealing with a mother-in-law; how do I respond to the problem of a mother-in-law who is overbearing, controlling, and meddling?
In the chapter "Dealing with a mother-in-law," you will learn how to respond to an overbearing, controlling, and meddling mother-in-law. The document provides insights on setting boundaries, addressing interference in marriage, and maintaining peace of mind despite the challenging situation.
Key points
The Bible refers to an intrusive mother-in-law as a 'busybody,' emphasizing the need for boundaries and respect within the family.
It highlights the importance of husbands taking the lead in addressing interference from their mothers or mothers-in-law to protect the sanctity of their marriage.
The document suggests responding with grace, setting boundaries firmly, and focusing on personal peace and spiritual strength to overcome the stress caused by a meddling mother-in-law.
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ENCOURAGEMENT
The chapter on ENCOURAGEMENT teaches about inspiring courage, confidence, hope, and renewed strength of heart and soul through moral support. It highlights the positive effects of encouragement, ways to encourage others, sharing words of comfort and appreciation, forgiving and reassuring those who have made mistakes, and the importance of self-encouragement.
Key points
Encouragement involves inspiring courage, confidence, hope, and renewed strength of heart and soul through moral support.
Positive effects of encouragement are highlighted through various biblical references emphasizing the power of words and support.
Ways to encourage others include being there when needed, sharing words of comfort and love, forgiving mistakes, and reassuring those in need.
Self-encouragement is also emphasized through positive thinking and unity in prayer and fellowship for mutual support
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1. The positive effects of encouragement:
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2. Encourage others by just being there when others need you.
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3. Share words of comfort, love and appreciation with those who are feeling low.
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4. Forgive and reassure those who’ve made mistakes.
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5. Assist those who are burdened with troubles or a heavy load.
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6. Remembering times when God gave us victories over our discouragement motivates us want to encourage others.
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7. Talk about Jesus and what He’s done for you, and can do for others!
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United prayer and fellowship is a source of encouragement.
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The Lord and His Word is our greatest source of encouragement.
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Encouragement is a two- way street: When we encourage others, we ourselves are encouraged.
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The ability to encourage others is a gift from God, which He gives to you for the asking.
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EVIL ASSOCIATIONS AND BAD COMPANY
The chapter "Evil Associations and Bad Company" discusses the impact of friendships or partnerships that have negative effects on our attitudes, actions, or physical and spiritual well-being. It emphasizes the importance of being influenced for the better by those we associate with and warns against the dangers of bad company.
Key points
The chapter highlights biblical verses that caution against the influence of bad company on corrupting good manners and leading individuals astray.
It stresses the importance of associating with those who will influence us for the good, such as wise and righteous individuals.
The chapter likens bad associations to snares or traps set by the Devil, warning against the consequences of not keeping oneself separate from worldly influences.
It also discusses how bad associations can compromise one's convictions, lead to compromise, and cause individuals to stray from the right path.
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We are influenced, for better or for worse, by those with whom we associate.
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We should associate with those by whom we will be influenced for the good.
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God’s word likens bad associations to “snares” or traps set by the Devil.
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Bad association can cause us to compromise our convictions.
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The Enemy tempts us by making the ways of the ungodly appear desirable-but consider their end!
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We need conviction to separate ourselves from ungodly, unfruitful associations.
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If we continue to keep bad company, we will be punished with them.
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We should not even associate with other Christians who persist in being willfully disobedient.
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Pray for the Lord’s help, wisdom and discernment to escape the snare of bad associations.
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GROUP COUNSELING/ GROUP THERAPY
The chapter on Group Counseling/Group Therapy focuses on the importance of community in mental, emotional, and spiritual health. It outlines three significant stages of development for healing to occur: growth of the individual, growth towards a larger sense of community, and growth in the sense of others or family.
Key points
Individuals are on a journey of discovery and growth, seeking to complete their own individuation process by taking responsibility for their actions.
Group therapy is emphasized as an essential part of counseling structures to promote developmental and relational community growth.
Family therapy sessions cover various conceptual topics like family rules, communication rules, and decision-making, aiming to improve family dynamics and relationships.
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INTRODUCTION
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The process of growth of the individual
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The Process of Group Therapy
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The Process toward a Larger Sense of Community for the individual
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The Process of family Counseling
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Family Therapy
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Marriage Counseling
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Family Therapy Group Sessions
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Men’s Group Therapy
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Women’s Therapy Group
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Mixed Therapy Group
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Structure Of Each Group Session
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Special interest Therapy Groups
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Children’s Group Therapy Process
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HABITS AND OVERCOMING BAD HABITS
The chapter "Habits and Overcoming Bad Habits" delves into the concept of habits as recurrent patterns of behavior that can be good or bad, helpful or harmful. It explores common causes of bad habits such as resistance to change, yielding to temptation, and fear of God. The chapter emphasizes the need to replace old bad habits with positive new ones to continue growing spiritually.
Key points
Habits are established patterns of behavior acquired through repetition, which can be either good or bad.
Common causes of bad habits include resistance to change, yielding to temptation, and fear of God.
To grow spiritually, it is essential to replace old bad habits with positive new ones.
Scriptures like Psalm 55:19, Ecclesiastes 8:11, and James 1:14-15 are referenced to highlight the importance of overcoming bad habits.
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some common causes of bad habits:
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In order to continue to grow spiritually, we need to strive to replace old bad habits with positive new ones.
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The lord can help us change and overcome anything: all he needs is our yields and cooperation.
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We need to shun bad habits not only for our own sake, but also for the sake of others; it’s a part of love.
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We need to get militant against bad habits for God’s work’s sake.
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8. Especially when we are beginning to form new positive habits, we need to ask the Lord to remind us when we are falling back into our old ways, so that we can learn to catch and correct ourselves
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HOMOSEXUALITY LEV 18:22
In the chapter "Homosexuality Lev 18:22," you will learn about the concept of homosexuality as a sexually attracted desire towards the same sex. It discusses the practice of homosexuality between women (Lesbianism) and men (Gay) and highlights it as a high level of ungodly soul tie with destructive outcomes for those involved.
Key Points
Homosexuality is defined as a sexually attracted desire towards the same sex, with specific terms for relationships between women (Lesbianism) and men (Gay).
The chapter emphasizes that the practice of homosexuality is considered ungodly and is punished by God, citing references from Romans 1:26&27.
It delves into the causes of homosexuality, including the change of truth into lies, lack of knowledge of God, and spiritual judgments imposed by God on the individuals involved in such acts
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INTRODUCTION
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Causes of Homosexuality
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Spiritual Judgment
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Some Examples
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What the future holds for the victims
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Possible solution is Jesus
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HOW TO COUNSEL A DISHONEST LEADER
In the chapter "HOW TO COUNSEL A DISHONEST LEADER," you will learn about counseling a dishonest leader, including the definition of counseling, the causes of dishonesty, characteristics of a dishonest leader, and ways to counsel such a leader effectively.
Key points
Understanding the definition of counseling and its importance in resolving personal difficulties.
Exploring the causes of dishonesty, such as illiteracy, lack of merit in obtaining positions, and pride.
Identifying characteristics of a dishonest leader, including being suspicious, secretive, and wanting to be a master rather than a servant.
Learning effective ways to counsel a dishonest leader, such as using God's guidance, approaching with love and humanity, and speaking the truth in a knowledgeable manner.
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Definition
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THE CAUSES OF DISHONESTY
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Ways to counsel him
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INSECURITY
The chapter on INSECURITY teaches about drawing security from Jesus and His Word, rather than worldly things. It emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's love and care, overcoming fear and anxiety through faith, and seeking security in the presence of Jesus.
Key points
Learning to find security in Jesus and His Word as the ultimate stabilizers.
Understanding that worldly possessions and achievements do not provide lasting security.
Overcoming insecurity by trusting in God's provision and care.
Recognizing that true security comes from knowing one's identity in Christ and living according to God's purpose.
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Definition
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our security from the great stabilizers: Jesus and His Word.
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We can’t look to the things of this world for our security.
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Insecurity often stems from over-concern for our physical situation or needs.
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Anywhere with Jesus, we can feel safe, secure and loved.
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In Jesus we have unit ailing confidence and assurance!
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We can be channels of the Lord’s comfort and reassurance to one another.
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What is Jungian analytic psychology, and is it biblical?
In the chapter on Jungian analytic psychology, you will learn about Carl Jung's theory that focuses on religion, meaning, and self-actualization. Jung believed in a personal unconscious connected to human history and influenced by the spiritual. His theory includes archetypes like the persona, anima, animus, shadow, and self.
Key points
Carl Jung's theory embraces religion as a psychological concept and emphasizes meaning over biological determinism.
Jung believed in the collective unconscious, which contains memories of human history and guides human development.
Archetypes like the persona, anima, animus, shadow, and self play a significant role in Jung's theory of personality.
Jungian analytic psychology aims for self-actualization and a balance of archetypes through individualized therapy based on client type.
While Jung's acceptance of spirituality is refreshing to some Christians, his views on spirituality and evil are not in line with biblical teachings.
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INTRODUCTION
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Explanation of Jungian Analytic Psychology Theory
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Biblical Commentary on Jungian Analytic Psychology
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COURSE ON PEDOPHILLIA
The course on pedophilia covers essential information about pedophilia, child molestation, identifying possible abusers, grooming techniques, and the impact of child sexual abuse.
Key points
Definition of pedophilia as a psychiatric disorder involving sexual attraction towards children.
Types of child molestation including defilement, rape, and indecent touching.
Ways pedophiles groom their victims such as through gifts, emotional bait, and establishing trust.
Signs to identify a possible abuser like always wanting to be around the child and making the child feel uncomfortable.
Effects of child sexual abuse including depression, aggression, and lifelong psychological trauma.
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What is Pedophilia?
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Who is a child?
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Types of Molestation
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Who could abuse your child?
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Causes of child sexual abuse
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Other causes of child abuse
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Where can your child be sexually abused?
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How do pedophiles get their victims?
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How to identify a possible abuser
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What a perpetrator says to a child willing to speak out
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Effect of child sexual abuse
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OVERCOMING ADDICTION AND PSYCHOLOGICAL MINDSET. Eph. 4:27
In the chapter "OVERCOMING ADDICTION AND PSYCHOLOGICAL MINDSET" with reference to Ephesians 4:27, you will learn about addiction as a psychological dependence on habits or substances, the impact of addiction on various aspects of life, causes of addiction like drug addiction and sex addiction, and the importance of recovery processes and counseling in overcoming addiction.
Key points
Understanding addiction as a psychological dependence affecting various aspects of life.
Causes of addiction such as drug addiction and sex addiction.
Importance of recovery processes, counseling, and understanding the consequences of addiction.
Biblical perspectives on addiction and the need for transformation through God's power.
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Introduction
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a) Drug addiction
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b) Sex addiction
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c) Addiction to corruption Prov 6:27-28
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d) Divorce addiction Mat. 19:7-10:
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Recovery from addiction process 1Cor. 6:9-10, 1Jn. 4:4
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OVERCOMING STRESS
The chapter "OVERCOMING STRESS" provides insights on managing stress by knowing oneself, setting priorities, focusing on one thing at a time, making prayer a daily habit, and taking time to rest and enjoy life.
Key points
Understanding one's identity and purpose to overcome stress.
Knowing who you are trying to please and focusing on priorities.
Learning to focus on one thing at a time to avoid distractions.
Making prayer a daily habit for stress relief.
Taking time to rest and enjoy life to manage stress effectively.
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INTRODUCTION
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‘Who are you?’ they demanded. Jesus replied, ‘The one I have. Always claimed to be.”‘John 8:25 NLT
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II. “I seek not to please myself but him who sent me. John 5:30 NJV
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III. “I know where I came from and where I am going.” John 8:14 NIV
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IV. “I. must proclaim the good news of the kingdom of God to the other towns also, because that is why I was sent.” Luke 4:43 NIV
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V. “He appointed twelve… that he might send them out” Mark 3:14 NIV
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VI. “Very early in the morning … Jesus … prayed”. Mark 1:35 NIV
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VII. “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest”. Mark 6:31 NIV
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VIII. “I will give you rest.” Matthew 11 :28 CEV
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POSITIVENESS/ NEGATIVE THINKING
In the chapter on POSITIVENESS/NEGATIVE THINKING, you will learn about the definitions of negativethinking and positiveness. Negativethinking is akin to pessimism, while positiveness is about optimism and expecting the good in things. The chapter emphasizes the importance of avoiding negative thinking and embracing a positive outlook on life.
Key points
Negativethinking is described as taking the most unfavorable view of situations or expecting the worst outcomes.
Positiveness, on the other hand, involves anticipating favorable results and looking on the bright side of things.
The chapter provides biblical references and examples to illustrate the impact of negative thinking on one's life and relationships.
It highlights the significance of maintaining a positive attitude and mindset to overcome challenges and cultivate a sense of hopefulness.
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Definition
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Giving place to negative thinking only bears bad fruits.
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We need to ask the Lord to “wash” our hearts and “renew” our minds so that we will think Only His Positive, good thoughts
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Ask the Lord to help you learn to recognize the enemy’s negative thoughts so you can resist them!
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Stop yourself at the first negative thought.
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Think on the god things
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Take a positive stand against the Devil and his negativeess.
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Keep your heart and mind filled with God’s word.
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Think about Jesus
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God not only knows our thoughts, He can help us to have positive ones.
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Positive speech has a good effect on everyone, both those who voice and those who hear it
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Keep positive by helping someone else with their problems instead of thinking about your own.
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REJECTING COUNSELING; Leviticus 2:15, 26, 43
Under the chapter "REJECTING COUNSELING; Leviticus 2:15, 26, 43," you will learn about the concept of rejecting counseling based on biblical references. The chapter discusses the reasons why some individuals reject counseling and the impact it can have on their lives and relationships.
Key Points
The chapter highlights how rejecting counseling can stem from poor character, disrespect for others, and a preference for isolation and depression.
It delves into the consequences of rejecting godly counsel, such as building aspirations on wrong foundations and struggling with inferiority complexes.
The chapter also emphasizes the importance of discernment in counseling relationships and the need for both counselors and counselees to be open to receiving and giving guidance
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REPUTATION
The chapter on REPUTATION covers the importance of having a good reputation, how to maintain it, and how it can impact various aspects of life. It emphasizes the value of a good name, the significance of reputation among God's people, and how the Lord may grant public favor for His purpose.
Key points
Importance of a good reputation for the right reasons.
Biblical references highlighting the value of a good name.
Seeking to please the Lord to maintain a good reputation.
Instances where the Lord granted favor to individuals for His purpose.
Emphasis on obedience, faith, and serving Christ to maintain a good reputation.
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SCHOOL OF THE SPIRIT
The School of the Spirit focuses on living a life in the spirit, shifting focus from physical reality to spiritual consciousness. It emphasizes following Jesus' example of living in the spirit and overcoming worldly systems.
Key points
Understanding the supernatural and spiritual laws that nullify natural laws.
Recognizing the power of the devil through men and the importance of possessing supernatural abilities.
Grasping the dual working of the spirit within believers and its directives.
Walking in the spirit, being led by the spirit, and bearing the fruits of the spirit like love, joy, and peace.
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INTRODUCTION
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WHY WE MUST HAVE THE SUPERNATURAL
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HOW TO CULTIVATE PEACE:
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HOW TO DEVELOP PATIENCE:
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WHAT PATIENCE IS NOT?
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MEEKNESS; NOT WEAKNESS Jas 1:12:
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SECRETS: WHEN TO KEEP, AND WHEN NOT TO
The chapter "SECRETS: WHEN TO KEEP, AND WHEN NOT TO" discusses the importance of keeping secrets, related to faithfulness, loyalty, and protection of the Lord's work. It also highlights the consequences of revealing secrets and the significance of discretion in various situations.
Key points
Keeping secrets is linked to faithfulness and loyalty, as seen in the story of Rahab secretly harboring and hiding the two spies in Joshua 2.
The chapter emphasizes the negative impact of revealing secrets, as mentioned in Proverbs 11:13, where a talebearer exposes secrets while a faithful spirit conceals them.
It also delves into the consequences of disclosing secrets, such as Samson losing his strength and being captured after revealing the secret of his strength to Delilah in Judges 16.
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Keeping secrets is related to faithfulness and loyalty.
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Keeping secrets can be a matter of the protection of the Lord’s work
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Jesus at times revealed certain matters only to His disciples, and asked them to keep it a secret.
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Keeping secrets should not mean being dishonest.
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SINGLES
The chapter on SINGLES provides valuable insights for single men on how to conduct themselves in relationships and attract potential partners. It emphasizes the importance of communication, hard work, emotional control, realistic expectations, and humility.
Key points
Single men are advised to be mindful of their words, avoid idleness, control their temper, not seek perfection in a partner, and refrain from being proud or rude.
The chapter highlights the significance of self-confidence, having a vision, forgiveness, and effective communication in building successful relationships.
It also touches upon the importance of prioritizing God, proper planning, listening actively, and maintaining a positive climate for disclosure in interactions with others.
Overall, the chapter aims to guide single men in developing the qualities and behaviors that can lead to fulfilling and harmonious relationships.
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SINGLE MEN
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HOW SHOULD SINGLES (BOYS/GIRLS) DRESS?
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QUALITIES A SINGLE SHOULD HAVE
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DEALING WITH SOUL TIES
In the chapter "Dealing with Soul Ties," you will learn about the concept of soul ties, how they are established, the possibilities and manifestations of soul ties, deeper consequences, and ways to avoid ungodly soul ties. The chapter also covers the divine and diabolic perspectives on soul ties, solutions, self-deliverance, and the importance of understanding the different types of soul ties.
Key points
Understanding the three faculties of the human soul: Mind, Will, and Emotion.
Differentiating between godly and ungodly soul ties based on intentions and outcomes.
Ways soul ties are established through various means like intimate conversations, sexual unions, and emotional bonds.
Consequences of ungodly soul ties including psychological and spiritual bondage.
Importance of self-awareness and spiritual discernment in dealing with soul ties.
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The divine and diabolic perspectives
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What are soul ties?
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Ways by which soul ties are established
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The various ways through which many get yoked in soul ties include:
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POSSIBILITIES OF SOUL TIES
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SPIRITUAL WARFARE TO FULFILL DESTINY
In the chapter "SPIRITUAL WARFARE TO FULFILL DESTINY," you will learn about the spiritual battle that believers face in fulfilling their destiny in Christ. The chapter emphasizes the importance of fighting against spiritual warfare that occurs within, outside, and in the heavenly realms. It highlights the need to stand firm in faith, put on the whole armor of God, and be convinced of your destiny in Christ to overcome the enemy's schemes.
Key points
Understanding the continuous spiritual warfare believers face and the tactics used by the enemy to hinder God's work in their lives.
The victorious weapon of conviction in fulfilling one's destiny in Christ and the importance of standing strong in faith.
Dealing with strongholds in the mind, resisting deception, and taking authority over the enemy's suggestions to walk in victory.
The significance of living above cultural expectations, maintaining unity with fellow believers, and focusing on fulfilling God's purposes without being hindered by external influences
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SPIRITUAL WARFARE
Under the chapter SPIRITUAL WARFARE, you will learn about the conflict between Satan's Kingdom and God's Kingdom, the characteristics of Satan and his followers, how to become a warrior for Christ, successful deliverance keys, and the importance of spiritual warfare in fulfilling your destiny.
Key points
Understanding the conflict between Satan's Kingdom and God's Kingdom.
Identifying Satan and his followers as the real enemy.
Becoming a warrior for Christ and the qualities required.
Keys to successful deliverance and setting captives free.
The importance of spiritual warfare in fulfilling your destiny.
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WHAT IS WAR?
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SECULAR ARMIES
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EVIL SPIRITS
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QUALITIES OF A SECULAR SOLDIER
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QUALITIES OF THE ARMY OF THE CROSS
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CONCLUSION
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KEYS TO SUCCESFUL DELIVRANCE (Mt. 10:1-10, Jer.1:9-10)
In the chapter "Keys to Successful Deliverance" based on Mt. 10:1-10 and Jer. 1:9-10, you will learn essential steps and key actions required for a warrior to achieve successful deliverance in spiritual warfare.
Key points
Evaluating oneself to ensure worthiness as a warrior.
Having high capacity defensive and offensive weapons.
Being lifted with Jesus to higher heavenly places above Satan and his forces.
Having the Holy Spirit within to generate power for combat.
In-depth knowledge of the enemy and their followers.
Understanding how the enemy operates.
Identifying captives and evaluating the level of attack.
Launching attacks to liberate captives.
Taking authority in Jesus' name and fighting in the power of the Holy Spirit.
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Introduction
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DIFFERENT FORMS OF DEMONIC ATTACK AND SUBJECTION
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Conclusion
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SPIRITUAL WARFARE TO FULFILL DESTINY
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Conclusion
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TAKING WRONG COUNSEL OR VISIT WRONG MEDIUM (BE IT PEOPLE, PLACE, SITUATION, OR EVENT)
Under the chapter "Taking Wrong Counselor or Visit Wrong Medium (Be it People, Place, Situation, or Event)," you will learn about the importance of seeking counsel from God Almighty rather than mortal men or other mediums. It emphasizes the consequences of seeking advice from the wrong sources and the significance of relying on God's perfect counsel.
Key points
The chapter highlights the need to depend on God's counsel, as human advice may not always align with God's will.
It discusses how seeking counsel from the wrong sources can lead to rebellion against God and bring His wrath.
You will understand the impact of wrong counseling on families, individuals, and the importance of seeking guidance from the Lord in various aspects of life.
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INTRODUCTION
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Family or family members:
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Nations ( Rev13:7, Ps1:2):
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THE PRINCIPLE OF PROSPERITY AND THE POWER OF PLANNING
In the chapter "THE PRINCIPLE OF PROSPERITY AND THE POWER OF PLANNING," you will learn about the desire for prosperity, the importance of planning, and the principles of achieving prosperity through biblical teachings.
Key points
Understanding the meaning of prosperity and its significance in life.
Exploring the difference between worldly prosperity and divine prosperity.
Learning about the causes of poverty and the principles of prosperity according to biblical teachings.
Emphasizing the power of planning in achieving success and prosperity in life.
Discovering key principles such as salvation, holiness, tithing, and working towards prosperity.
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THE PRINCIPLE OF PROSPERITY
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Introduction
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Causes of poverty
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THE POWER OF PLANNING
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Why plans fail
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Types of planning
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TOLERANCE OF OTHERS
The chapter "Tolerance of Others" teaches about accepting views, beliefs, and practices different from one's own, freedom from bigotry, bias, discrimination, or prejudice. It emphasizes being loving and considerate of others who differ from us, as shown through biblical teachings on patience, forbearance, and long-suffering.
Key points
Tolerance involves accepting differences and showing love and consideration towards others.
Biblical references highlight the importance of living peaceably with all, respecting others' beliefs, and avoiding judgment.
The chapter emphasizes the significance of knowing oneself, being adaptable, and maintaining unity and peace among individuals.
It also touches on the importance of looking for the good in others to foster tolerance and understanding.
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Definition:
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5. The Lord expects us to be tolerant, as we appreciate thetolerance of others.
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COUNSELING UPLIFTS BURDEN
The chapter "Counseling Uplifts Burden" emphasizes the importance of seeking guidance from supervisors and wise leaders to make counseling more effective. It highlights the need for rest, prayer, meditation, and studying the word of God to understand and address the burdens of others. The chapter also discusses the significance of training counselors, avoiding overloading oneself with work, and creating a stress-free environment for counseling sessions.
Key points
Seeking counseling guidance from supervisors and wise leaders to enhance the counseling process.
Importance of rest, prayer, meditation, and studying the word of God for effective counseling.
Training counselors, avoiding overloading with work, and creating a stress-free environment for successful counseling sessions
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WHAT IS THE BIBLE
In the chapter "WHAT IS THE BIBLE," you will learn about the Bible being the inspired and authoritative word of God, the importance of studying doctrine, the concept of scripture being God-breathed, implications of scripture, Jesus' view of scripture, the Apostles' view of scripture, the uniqueness of the Bible, and the nature of Lord Jesus Christ.
Key points
Understanding the Bible as the inspired word of God
Importance of studying doctrine for character development and understanding God's ways
Implications of scripture being God-breathed and its dual authority
Jesus' high regard for scripture and its eternal nature
Apostles' view of scripture for doctrine, correction, and instruction
Uniqueness of the Bible in its composition and controversial subjects
Lord Jesus Christ's divine nature and qualities
Authority of Jesus and his sinlessness
Resurrection and power over death as demonstrated by Jesus
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What is Doctrine?
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What is scripture?
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Uniqueness of the Bible
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Resurrection; Power over Death
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There are benefits and privilege of relationship with the Father
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What is the rule of the church?
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The benefits of Church membership and Christian fellowship
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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT COPING WITH A TERMINAL ILLNESS
In the chapter "What the Bible Says About Coping with a Terminal Illness," you will learn about finding comfort and strength in Jesus during times of suffering and terminal illness. The chapter emphasizes the importance of trusting in God's plan, understanding the purpose behind trials, and finding peace in God's promises for eternal life.
Key points
Jesus cares deeply for those facing terminal illness, offering comfort and help to His children.
Suffering is a part of life, but trusting in God's design can bring spiritual security and strength.
Terminal illness is not always a result of personal sin, and trials can work for the good of those who love God.
It is essential to know and trust in God's plan, find joy in trials, and rely on God's strength to endure suffering.
The chapter encourages preparing spiritually, growing in faith, and ministering to others while facing a terminal illness.
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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT PERFECTIONISM
In the chapter "What the Bible Says About Perfectionism," you will learn that perfectionism is considered a hoax as humans cannot achieve perfection. The text emphasizes that striving for unattainable perfection leads to stress, discontent, and frustration. It highlights the importance of trusting in Jesus for forgiveness and acceptance, rather than trying to meet unrealistic standards of perfection set by oneself or society.
Key points
Perfectionism is unattainable and can lead to stress and discontent.
Trusting in Jesus for forgiveness and acceptance is emphasized.
The chapter discusses the example of Martha struggling with perfectionism and Jesus redirecting her focus.
It explains that true perfection is found in being completed in Christ, not in worldly standards of perfection.
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What does the Bible say about self-hatred?
The chapter on self-hatred in the Bible discusses how individuals may view life as futile and hate living when they lack hope or adopt worldly values. It emphasizes that as believers in Christ, we should not hate life but rather hate evil. The chapter also touches on the importance of not harboring self-hatred as it goes against the righteousness imputed to believers by faith.
Key points
The Bible addresses self-hatred as a cry of a tormented soul, contrasting it with the joy and righteousness believers should experience through faith in Christ.
It highlights the dangers of continually practicing iniquity and the negative impact it has on one's self-perception.
The chapter explains how both unbelievers and believers may fall victim to self-hatred when they conform to worldly standards of beauty, success, and worth, leading to feelings of unworthiness and self-hatred.
It emphasizes the importance of loving oneself as God's creation, avoiding self-hatred, and seeking to please God rather than conforming to worldly ideals.
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WHEN THE COUNSELEE COUNSELS THE COUNCELLOR
The chapter "WHEN THE COUNSELEE COUNSELS THE COUNCELLOR" focuses on the dynamic where the counselee starts counseling the counselor when the counselor is unable to overcome their own weaknesses. It emphasizes the importance of counselors dealing with their own issues before counseling others to avoid exposing their weaknesses. The chapter also touches on the consequences of counselors not addressing their bad habits and the impact it can have on the counseling process.
Key points
The chapter highlights the scenario where the counselee begins counseling the counselor when the counselor is unable to address their weaknesses effectively.
It stresses the significance of counselors dealing with their own weaknesses and bad habits before counseling others to maintain credibility and trust in the counseling relationship.
The chapter warns about the potential consequences of counselors not addressing their personal issues, which can lead to a breakdown in the counseling process and a lack of confidence from the counselee.
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INTRODUCTION
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Counselee counsels the counselor
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What causes a counselor to be exposed to the counselee?
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Counseling the counselor
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WHY MARRIAGE FAILS
The chapter "WHY MARRIAGE FAILS" provides insights into various reasons behind marriage failures. It delves into factors such as wrong intentions of getting married, poor foundations, communication breakdown, financial management issues, unfaithfulness, cultural differences, and lack of spiritual leadership, among others.
Key points
Couples must have good intentions of getting married beyond superficial reasons like money or beauty.
The strength of a marriage is influenced by the teachings each partner has about marriage.
Lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings and marriage failure.
Financial management, inability to carry out specific roles, and unfaithfulness are common reasons for marriage failures.
Diverse cultural backgrounds, laziness, and lack of forgiveness can also contribute to the breakdown of a marriage.
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INTRODUCTION
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Wrong intensions of getting married
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Poor foundations of marriage
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Failure to leave and cleave
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Unforgiveness
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
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